Expect Success to Stay Self-Motivated and Get Great Results
By Caterina Rando, MA, MCC
If you called my office you will hear my voice mail message that ends with the words Expect Success.
Theres a important intent behind that. What if every time we made a phone call or personal request or
met with a potential new customer, you expected you would be successful? Do you think your behavior
would be different?
If we truly expected success we would make more phone calls, make more requests and schedule more
appointments. And that would result in more business, more income, more ease in our workday, and more
When we call people or meet with them, we have to hold the attitude that we are offering them an
opportunity. An important opportunity, and maybe even the perfect opportunity for them. If they do not
go for it, thats fine. Our responsibility to ourselves is to make the offer. It doesnt matter what the
thoughts and actions of the other person are; it doesnt matter whether they agree to what you are
offering or not. What matters is that you go for what you want all the time, every time, and are as
proactive and confident as you would be if you knew you could not miss.
As you well know success is not a destination we arrive at; it is an attitude we hold along the way.
All the joy of our professional lives is not in the outcome, but in the process. Do not rob yourself
of the satisfaction that lies on the path along the wayenjoy every call you place, every order you take,
every presentation you make. Revel in the process of being a successtoday.
To expect more success, more of the time, follow these steps:
- Acknowledge all the small successes in the process. Count your wins daily. Wins are all those things
that go your way in a given daythe letter you wrote, the VIP you finally got hold of, the parking ticket
you eluded, the compliment you received.
- Smile. Both psychologically and physiologically, this simple, easy action improves our well-being,
which improves our outlook, which prepares us for all the great things we are expecting to happen to us.
To become fit and healthy from a success standpoint, give your smile muscles a workout just like the
rest of your body.
- Hold your success attitude in your body. Stand up straight, raise your chin up, keep your shoulders
back and feet firmly planted. Feel the power of personal success in every cell in your body.
- Create a compelling success image in your mind. Once you expect your success, see it. Imagine it
vividly and in colorwhat are you doing, where are you, what are you wearing, how does it feel like in
your body? Make your success as real as possible in your mind, so your expectancy is even stronger and,
as a result, your actions even bigger.
- Use an affirmation or set an intentions. State to yourself over and over what you intend to create
today. State your intentions verbally, out loud to yourself; state them silently, in your mind; and
record them on a cassette tape so that you can listen to yourself stating what you expect to create in
- Beyond Affirming, Feel It. Do not stop at the mental part of expecting success. Also feel it in your
body. You have felt the good feeling of connecting, achieving, realizing what you want.
- Be bold. Do all those things today that you know you will do when you are more successful. That is
how you will create the success you strive for in your business and life.
You will never be more successful than you expect you can be. Greet every day with the belief that good
things are going to happen to you. Expect to be successful with your calls, appointments and projects.
Your work life will be enriched; you will take more risks, make more requests, and seize more opportunities.
That will result in a better life, and that is what success is all about. I say that people who expect
success not only think they are more successful, they actually are more successful. I urge you to
vigorously and fully prove this theory in your own life.
Caterina Rando, MA, MCC coaches women entrepreneurs and direct sellers to succeed with ease. She is
a sought after speaker, master certified coach and author of the national best-seller Learn to Power
Think. Caterina is also the Success Center Director for the Direct Selling Womens Alliance and
contributing author to the soon to be released book Build it Big-101 Secrets of Top Direct Selling
Experts. Caterina can be reached at 800 966-3603 or by email at firstname.lastname@example.org. Visit her website
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